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Books like Ugly Love

New York Times bestselling author Colleen Hoover contemporary romance novel Ugly Love follows Tate Collins and airline pilot Miles Archer as the duo appears to have an undeniable attraction towards each other. Since both are in the place where they seem to have the perfect atmosphere to full their desire therefore they agree on an arrangement which includes no love. Miles makes it clear that he is not looking for a future together . But for Miles is unable it isn’t easy to not fall in love even though his past never stops haunting him.

Ugly Love has a unique writing style that will hook you from the beginning . If you’re a fan of stellar writing, Colleen Hoover’s novel is a must-read! Although you might have read many fake-dating romance or heart wrenching novels, Colleen Hoover’s Ugly Love is one of a kind! Tate and Miles’ story will surely make you cry like a baby.  

And if you’ve read the book already and looking for similar books like Ugly Love that will make you hold your breath while reading, you’ll love this post!

Here are 12 brutal and beautiful books just like Ugly Love. Moving books that will compel yourself to stop reading and prolong the experience because you just don’t want the story to end. 

More books to read after Ugly Love

A Thousand Boy Kisses by Tillie Cole

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In the list of books like Ugly Love by colleen hoover, first comes a bittersweet young adult novel, A Thousand Boy Kisses that follows the love life of Rune Kristiansen, a seventeen-year-old boy who returns from Norway to the United States, to the peaceful backwater town of Blossom Grove, Georgia. However, unlike Blossom Grove, Rune’s return to the town will be anything but peaceful and quiet. Rune will discover the truth about why his childhood sweetheart, Poppy Litchfield, the girl who was the other half of him, suddenly broke away from him. A thousand kisses may last a lifetime, but the devastating truth that Rune is about to discover will change everything forever. Like Colleen Hoover’s Ugly Love , ‘A Thousand Boy Kisses’ is an achingly beautiful love story that will make you cry!  


November 9 by Colleen Hoover

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One of the best parts about Colleen Hoover’s love stories is that they will make your heart ache and rejoice at the same time. Similar to the book Ugly Love, Hoover’s 2015 novel November 9 will hit you right in the heart. The contemporary and new adult romance novel that tells the story of how two lonely hearts come together, perhaps too little too late. Fallon is all set to move across the country, then, the day before, she meets a yearning novelist, Ben. Fallon spends her last day in L.A. with her new heartthrob, who is inspired by her and uses her story as inspiration for his novel. As the years go on, Ben and Fallon meet on the same day every year, seemingly keeping true to their love for each other. However, when Fallon becomes suspicious that Ben has just been using the stories of her eventful life to write his perfect novel, the relationship – as well as the ending to Ben’s novel – is at risk of ending in heartbreak. Much like Ugly Love, ‘November 9’ tells a similar plot and involves similar characters and you can’t help but fall in love with them. And if you’re a Colleen Hoover fan you will find yourself devouring this novel in no time! 


All Your Perfects by Colleen Hoover

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A relationship that was built on perfect love comes under threat as it unravels into an imperfect marriage in this religious romance novel. All Your Perfects is the story of Quinn and Graham, a once-perfect couple who are now crashing. Their potential future teeters on promises made back when their love was perfect. For all their flaws, can Quinn and Graham still come together and save their marriage? Or have their imperfections caused far too much damage for salvation now? Colleen Hoover, the best-selling author of this novel, incorporates elements of heartbreak and empowerment to create a fantastic page-turner that simply cannot be put down by any reader. Which is why I think ‘All Your Perfects’ will be a perfect addition to the list of books to read if you like Ugly Love . 


Night Road by Kristin Hannah

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If you’re in search of  riveting & heart-wrenching  books to read after Ugly Love, Kristin Hannah’s ‘Night Road’ is a must-read. Night Road tells the story of how two unlikely friends have their lives changed forever one summer. There’s Lexi, an orphan girl who lives in a trailer park with her aunty, then there’s the perfect girl Mia who comes from a loving family and lives in a rich, beautiful home. There’s also Mia’s twin brother, Zach, who cruises through life with far less worries than his sister does. Jude has no worries about Zach… Then he falls in love, and that’s when it all starts. Mia and Lexi will never forget the summer that they graduated. It was a summer that started with love, confidence and vows, but one tragic night challenges friendships, breaks hearts and destroys all hope. 


Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers

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If you’re wondering what to read after Ugly Love, why not try this gorgeous novel that explores a powerful story?  Set in 1850s California, Francine Withers’ best-seller novel invites us to take a look at a far different America to the one we know today. We go back to a time when women sold themselves out for a place to sleep. As such, the only thing child prostitute Angel expects is betrayal from the men who use her. She survives purely on the hatred she has for the life she is forced to live. Then, one day, everything changes when Michael Hosea answers God’s call and shows Angel unconditional love, something that she cannot understand. As Michael slowly breaks down the barriers of Angel’s pessimistic expectation, she becomes scared and fearful of this surprising change in her life and flees…

Between Shades of Gray by Ruta Sepetys

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This historical war fiction novel takes an upsetting and harrowing turn when fifteen-year-old Lina, her mother and younger brother are kidnapped by Soviet guards and taken away from their own home, the place in which they should feel safe. Little do they know they are about to be deported to Siberia. Scared yet hopeful, Lina fears that she may never see her friends or her father ever again, but this doesn’t stop her from remaining headstrong for her family, future, country and of course, a boy; her first love, a boy that she knows she cannot lose no matter what. Between Shades Of Gray is the extraordinary true tale of multiple families in 1941!

The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood

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The Love Hypothesis is a slow burning romance novel for readers of the more “hardcore” side of the romance genre. Similar to Colleen Hoover’s Ugly Love, it’s a story about a charming couple. Ph.D. student Olive Smith struggles to remain hopeful that romantic relationships can last, though her best friend does. Panicked that she won’t get her happily ever after, Olive kisses the very next man she sees; Adam Carlsen. Adam is renowned as being a not-so-pleasant young professor, though much to Olive’s surprise, he agrees to be her fake boyfriend. However, Olive soon realises that understanding her own heart will be far more complicated than putting together any love hypothesis she has done before. If you wish to read steamy fake dating troupe books like Ugly Love ,  Love hypothesis is for you.  


Love and Other Words by Christina Lauren

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The uplifting tale of Macy and Elliot is told in two timelines: Then and Now. Then, teenager Macy befriends heartthrob Elliot and the two of them read books and spend lazy summers and weekends together as their relationship grows into something more. Now, Macy leads an ambitious life and is planning her wedding with a financially stable man… A man who isn’t Elliot. When adult Elliot runs into Macy again after a decade of no communication, he discovers the truth about why their relationship dissolved. Will Macy and Elliot rekindle their strong love for each other? Or should the past stay where it is? Love and Other Words is a story of finding everlasting love and perfect for anyone looking for a book like Ugly Love. 

The French Gardener by Santa Montefiore

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One of the best parts about Colleen Hoover’s Ugly Love is that it tells us a new pain that love can cause. It’s a magical story that will leave you breathless. The French Gardener is as heartrending as Ugly Love . Like Colleen Hoover, Santa Montefiore is a master storyteller. So if you want to read more books like Ugly Love, give this book a read. This contemporary woman’s novel follows Miranda and David, a married couple, as their family finally move out of London and begin to live their dream life in a vast and impressive country house with a beautiful garden. However, the reality soon comes crashing in as the family’s unhappiness bubbles to the surface and threatens to split them all apart. Something mystical then begins when a Frenchman arrives on the family’s doorstep, offering a lifeline to the family and seemingly helping to heal the rift between them. However, Miranda soon learns the secret to healing love lies in the magic of her garden. 


The Summer I Turned Pretty by Jenny Han

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The Summer I Turned Pretty tells a sweet summer tale and if you’re in the mood for books similar to Colleen Hoover’s Ugly Love, I highly recommend reading it! 

This young adult romance is the first in a series of novels that is now a major TV series on Amazon Prime. Teenager Isabel finally gets to have the summer of her dreams when she spends it at the Fisher family’s beach house, her favourite place in the whole wide world. There’s a swimming pool, a private area of the beach and, the thing that makes her summer so perfect, two cute boys. There’s Conrad, the boy that she’s been in love with forever but cannot have, and there’s Jeremiah, a friendly young man and the only boy who ever paid Isabel any attention even before the summer she became pretty. 

Punk 57 by Penelope Douglas

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Similar to the book Ugly Love, Penelope Douglas’ standalone love-hate romance novel gets under your skin and hits you right in the heart . The story follows the story of Mishal, a boy who, in fifth grade, was accidentally believed to be a girl by his teacher due to his name and was paired up with Ryen, who, ironically, was believed to be a boy by the teacher. Mishal and Ryen send each other letters for seven years, communicating with each other without actually meeting in the flesh. Then, one fortunate day, Mishal finds a photo of Ryen online and realises it’s the same girl he’s been communicating with. Mishal sets off to meet her, but then, something goes wrong. Ryen hears nothing from Mishal for three months and worries about all the things that could’ve happened. Is Misha even alive? Was he arrested? She has to find out. If you’re in search of the sexiest, most heart-wrenching novel similar to Colleen Hoover’s Ugly Love, read Punk 57 immediately! 

Boyfriend Material by Alexis Hall 

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This swooningly romantic novel follows twenty-eight-year old Luc who has been in the public eye occasionally. As the son of famous musicians the paparazzi take interest in his personal life from time to time. However, after the terrible incident that had caused several damage to his status, Luc is careful not not to get involved with anyone. But then as the news about his celebrity father’s epic comeback spreads in the media, Luc figures that it’s time to get a fake boyfriend. Which is how he meets a handsome lawyer named Oliver who agrees to be his boyfriend. If you’re a fan of fake dating trope books and craving for more books like Ugly Love, then look no further than Boyfriend Material.

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(Viking, £10.99)

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After winning the Booker Prize in 2020 for Shuggie Bain , Stuart published an equally extraordinary second novel which follows the treacherous first love between two young men. One protestant, one Catholic, and both living in a housing estate in Glasgow, it is a breathtakingly good page-turner.

(Picador, £16.99)

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Five years after losing the love of her life, Feyi is finally open to romance again. The only issue is that she’s falling for the one person she cannot have. You Made a Fool of Death with Your Beauty is an excellent story about the complex ways love can find and change us.

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Essays in Love by Alain de Botton

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Put simply, Essays in Love is a novel which follow the relationship of a man and a woman who first meet on a plane from Paris to London. But what with its unique structure and the astonishing insight and wisdom from its philosopher-author, it is best described as an investigation into the human heart.

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The Unexpected Joy of Being Single by Catherine Gray

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In a world which tells us we are only complete when we find our “other half”, Catherine Gray searches for happiness in solitude during a year off dating. Her book is an uplifting ode to singledom and a much-needed antidote to society’s obsession with the romantic happy ending.

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Infatuations. Attractions. Unexpected allure. Entanglements steeped in taboo and disruption. In Like Love, Michele Morano takes on the intrigues, strangeness, and lessons of unconsummated romance with humor and imagination.

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15 Books Like The Love Hypothesis (Sweet & Spicy)

If you’ve been on BookTok, you probably noticed that The Love Hypothesis has taken the Internet by storm. 

This big romance release is now acclaimed as both a New York Times Bestseller and a BookTok sensation for reasons we can definitely agree on: quirky yet real, a slow-burn romance and women in STEM.  

Books like The Love Hypothesis have themes of forced proximity as well as the fake dating trope.

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The True Scientist: Ali Hazelwood

Yes, we stan a woman in STEM who writes romance tropes in the academic setting. 

An actual neuroscientist, Ali Hazelwood’s literary works shine through that love can be found everywhere. Especially in serious fields like academia. 

It’s a fresh take on rom-coms or contemporary romance novels with STEM-inist female protagonists in fake-dating tropes. 

What To Read After The Love Hypothesis? Ali Hazelwood Books!

If you’re wondering what books to read after reading The Love Hypothesis, don’t miss out on other books by Ali Hazelwood.

Some of Ali Hazelwood books that are set to be released in 2022 & 2023 are: 

Ali Hazelwood’s STEMinist Novellas are now available as a collection of short stories in Loathe To Love You .

Why You Should Read The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood

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With no surprise, this book landed on most readers’ favourite list because of its storyline that’s a mixture of adorable and filled with chemistry.  

It’s not just a romance novel , the two main characters are highly educated, so it doesn’t feel like you’re reading a cheesy romance.

Although since the two main characters are of the education background, their choices in this plot are to question.

Adam is undeniably another addition to the long list of book boyfriends we all dream of. 

If you’re a fan of one-bed situations, fake dating and the enemies to lovers trope you must pick this book up!

Is The Love Hypothesis Spicy? 

Yes, The Love Hypothesis is spicy despite being a slow-burn romance. There’s great chemistry between the two characters.

15 Books Like The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood

1. spanish love deception by elena armas .

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Genre: Contemporary Romance

Amazon rating: 4.4

Goodreads rating: 4.04

What Are Readers Saying?

If you’re looking for books similar like The Love Hypothesis, The Spanish Love Deception is a great choice. This book is everything you could ask for in a romance novel that features the grumpy/sunshine dynamic. 

Set in Spain, the storyline is both dynamic and expressive due to its unique addition of Spanish elements. 

Elena Armas did an amazing job sparking joy in readers with the full potential of what fictional romance novels can bring.

Similar to the “having no other choice but to date” kinda trope, this book is a sure favourite read for fans of The Love Hypothesis .

2. Hating Game by Sally Thorne

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Amazon rating: 4.5/5

Goodreads rating: 4.02

What are readers saying?

The Hating Game is definitely more than just an enemies-to-lovers trope. It’s filled with endless banter, pranks and of course blooming love between the two main characters.

This book gives off very similar vibes to The Love Hypothesis.

It’s fun to see how two people who hate each other so much, end up falling in love.

While some readers shared they found the beginning draggy, they were glad that they stuck around to the end of the book. 

A guarantee reread and a great introductory book for those who aren’t snuggly with romance tropes.

3. Beach Read by Emily Henry

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Amazon rating: 4.4/5

Goodreads rating: 4.06

Expect a comedic romance between rivals Jan and Gus, both whom are writers.

Two writers are stuck in a creative rut, leaving them no choice but to draw inspiration from each other

Although the main theme of the book revolves around love, it also highlights betrayal, grief, failure, and learning how to take second chances in both life and love.

Beach Read is an authentic and swoonworthy book that you’ll definitely finish in one seating.

4. The Unhoneymooners by Christina Lauren 

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Goodreads rating: 4.00

There are mixed reviews for this one so pick this book up and judge for yourself. 

Similar to The Love Hypothesis, It’s the typical forced proximity trope, except this time… it extends to a honeymoon.  

Definitely a page-turner for those who are looking for a feel-good book with a cute, lighthearted love story plus forced proximity between the two main characters.

Read More: 12 Books Like The Unhoneymooners by Christina Lauren 

5. The Kiss Quotient by Helen Hoang 

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Goodreads rating: 3.94

This books will capture your heart right away with its endearing and all-consuming storyline.

Fun fact: author Helen Hoang’s journey as someone diagnosed with Autism Spectrum Disorder inspired Stella Lane’s character. 

This book is therefore labeled as an inclusive romance!

Needless to say, if you liked The Love Hypothesis, this is a read alike that will redefine your baseline for romance novels. 

6. It Happened One Summer by Tessa Bailey

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Goodreads rating: 4.1

This book serves gradual build-up of romance between Piper and Brendan and is also a small town romance, plus the grumpy-sunshine trope just like The Love Hypothesis.

Besides the romance, this book highlights themes such as self-acceptance and being comfortable in your own skin. 

Overall, a really fun read that centers around – fresh beginnings, rediscovery of self and taking a chance on love – which definitely makes this book a must-read.

Read More: 15 Books Like It Happened One Summer

7. Red, White and Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston

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Genre: Contemporary Romance, LGBT Romance 

Amazon rating: 4.6/5

Goodreads rating: 4.18

Red, White and Royal is a novel about political figures that not only is a celebration of identity, but it is also a great way to dive into education related to politics (in a fun and easy way ).

Don’t worry if you aren’t a fan of the political aspect, it’s an aspect of the book that highlights the difficulties of the relationship between the two princes.

If you’re looking for books about royals, male-to-male romance and opposites attract trope, this will be a refreshing read for you.

8. Take A Hint, Dani Brown by Talia Hibbert

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Amazon rating : 4.5

Goodreads rating : 4.07

A well-written fake dating trope romance novel you should pick up if you haven’t already. If you’re looking for a romance with steamy scenes, you’ll enjoy this one.

The second book in the Brown Sisters series, the story has extremely relatable parts that those who struggle with mental health will seek comfort in.

An unapologetic and contemporary take on addressing the difficulties of being a WOC (Women of Colour), body positivity and mental health.

9. You Had Me At Hola by Alexis Dara 

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Amazon rating: 4.3

Goodreads rating: 3.71

Imagine a telenovela in a book! It’s got family drama, betrayal and lies… minus the tragedies. 

What author Alexis Dara aced in this particular book is bringing in heavy conversations like the importance of consent. It also explores feminism and female agency on set. 

Though this meet-cute book has a share of fallbacks, most readers found the writing style engaging. All in all, making it an enjoyable, swoon-worthy read.

10. Act Your Age, Eve Brown by Talia Hibbert

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Amazon rating: 4.5

Expect nothing less from the third and final book in the Brown Sisters series.

Another book with representations of Autism Spectrum Disorder, Act Your Age, Eve Brown takes readers on a journey of childhood trauma, family approval and hints of race discrimination as a Black woman. 

The book is a realistic, thought-provoking read filled with heartwarming moments that makes it an irresistible purchase.

11. The Trouble With Hating You by Sajni Patel

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Goodreads rating: 3.83

Unlike the other book recommendations, this read is unlike your typical enemies-to-lovers trope. 

Written in dual-POV, it made it easier for readers to relate and understand to both the protagonists. 

All in all, this book is a raw read and is the perfect novel to stop your long reading slump!  

12. Written In The Stars by Alexandria Bellefleur

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Goodreads rating: 3.92

What are readers saying? 

Inspired by Pride and Prejudice , the core of its storyline are two common rom-com tropes: fake relationships and opposites attract. 

Unlike most fake relationship storylines, readers appreciated that the romance between the characters were balanced, instead of one-sided where both Darcy and Elle took the chance on each other.  

Even if you aren’t a fan of astrology, this is a highly recommended book for those who are fans of Pride and Prejudice and female-to-female romance. 

13. Secretly Yours by Tessa Bailey

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Yes, another Tessa Bailey recommendation on this list! Read Secretly Yours if you loved reading The Love Hypothesis.

Secretly Yours is similar to The Love Hypothesis because of it’s romance tropes and characters. Both male leads are professors who are the “grumpy” ones in the grumpy-sunshine trope, while the female character is a bubbly sunshine sweetheart.

Plus, just like The Love Hypothsis, in Secretly Yours, both love interest are forced to spend more time together because of their jobs (aka, forced proximity trope).

14. Twisted Lies by Ana Huang

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If you’re looking for more books like Love Hypothesis, Twisted Lies is perfect for you.

It has the same romance tropes as The Love Hypothesis – forced proximity and grumpy-sunshine trope.

Christian is a handsome billionaire who doesn’t is cold and distant but when it comes to Stella who finds herself in danger because of a stalker, he cannot help but make sure she is safe.

This is the last book in Twisted Love series . You can read it as a standalone but take note that you’ll come across characters from the first three books. If you prefer reading the Twisted series in order, this guide will help you decide which book to pick up first.

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15. Tis The Season For Revenge by Morgan Elizabeth

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Although a seasonal Christmas read, another romance books like The Love Hypothesis is Tis The Season For Revenge.

Abbie Keller is ditched by Richard Bartholemew Benson the Third whom she once thought would marry her instead, he left her crying outside her apartment. Humiliated, Abbie wants to take revenge.

Luck is on her side because she soon starts dating Damien Martinez, a founding member of the law firm where Richard works. Abbie must convince Damien to take her as his date to the annual Christmas party which Richard would be attending too.

This novel includes the grumpy-sunshine trope and is a spicy read, just like The Love Hypothesis.

Wrap Up: 15 Books Similar To The Love Hypothesis

And that wraps up twelve books to read if you liked The Love Hypothesis ! 

You’ll find exactly what you need and more in this list of books like The Love Hypothesis and hopefully, it inspires you to pick up a book today.

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Quotes from Essays in Love

Alain de Botton ·  211 pages

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“Every fall into love involves the triumph of hope over self-knowledge. We fall in love hoping we won't find in another what we know is in ourselves, all the cowardice, weakness, laziness, dishonesty, compromise, and stupidity. We throw a cordon of love around the chosen one and decide that everything within it will somehow be free of our faults. We locate inside another a perfection that eludes us within ourselves, and through our union with the beloved hope to maintain (against the evidence of all self-knowledge) a precarious faith in our species.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“We are all more intelligent than we are capable, and awareness of the insanity of love has never saved anyone from the disease.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Perhaps it is true that we do not really exist until there is someone there to see us existing, we cannot properly speak until there is someone who can understand what we are saying in essence, we are not wholly alive until we are loved.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“We fall in love because we long to escape from ourselves with someone as beautiful, intelligent, and witty as we are ugly, stupid, and dull. But what if such a perfect being should one day turn around and decide they will love us back? We can only be somewhat shocked-how can they be as wonderful as we had hoped when they have the bad taste to approve of someone like us?” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“It was no longer her absence that wounded me, but my growing indifference to it. Forgetting, however calming, was also a reminder of infidelity to what I had at one time held so dear.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“To be loved by someone is to realize how much they share the same needs that lie at the heart of our own attraction to them. Albert Camus suggested that we fall in love with people because, from the outside, they look so whole, physically whole and emotionally 'together' - when subjectively we feel dispersed and confused. We would not love if there were no lack within us, but we are offended by the discovery of a similar lack in the other. Expecting to find the answer, we find only the duplicate of our own problem.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“The more familiar two people become, the more the language they speak together departs from that of the ordinary, dictionary-defined discourse. Familiarity creates a new language, an in-house language of intimacy that carries reference to the story the two lovers are weaving together and that cannot be readily understood by others.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“.. if you asked most people whether they believed in love or not, they’d probably say they didn’t. Yet that’s not necessarily what they truly think. It’s just the way they defend themselves against what they want. They believe in it, but pretend they don’t until they’re allowed to. Most people would throw away all their cynicism if they could. The majority just never gets the chance.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Must being in love always mean being in pain?” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Perhaps the easiest people to fall in love with are those about whom we know nothing. Romances are never as pure as those we imagine during long train journeys, as we secretly contemplate a beautiful person who is gazing out of the window – a perfect love story interrupted only when the beloved looks back into the carriage and starts up a dull conversation about the excessive price of the on-board sandwiches with a neighbour or blows her nose aggressively into a handkerchief.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“The most attractive are not those who allow us to kiss them at once [we soon feel ungrateful] or those who never allow us to kiss them [we soon forget them], but those who coyly lead us between the two extremes.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“If cynicism and love lie at opposite ends of a spectrum, do we not sometimes fall in love in order to escape the debilitating cynicism to which we are prone? Is there not in every coup de foudre a certain willful exaggeration of the qualities of the beloved, an exaggeration which distracts us from our habitual pessimism and focuses our energies on someone in whom we can believe in a way we have never believed in ourselves?” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“The telephone becomes an instrument of torture in the demonic hands of a beloved who doesn't call.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Unrequited love may be painful, but it is safely painful, because it does not involve inflicting damage on anyone but oneself, a private pain that is as bitter-sweet as it is self-induced. But as soon as love is reciprocated, one must be prepared to give up the passivity of simply being hurt to take on the responsibility of perpetrating hurt oneself.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“There is a longing for a return to a time without the need for choices, free of the regret at the inevitable loss that all choice (however wonderful) has entailed.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“In the oasis complex, the thirsty man images he sees water, palm trees, and shade not because he has evidence for the belief, but because he has a need for it. Desperate needs bring about a hallucination of their solution: thirst hallucinates water, the need for love hallucinates a prince or princess. The oasis complex is never a complete delusion: the man in the desert does see something on the horizon. It is just that the palms have withered, the well is dry, and the place is infected with locusts.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Her lie was symptomatic of a certain pride she took in mocking the romantic, in being unsentimental, matter-of-fact, stoic; yet at heart she was the opposite: idealistic, dreamy, giving, and deeply attached to everything she liked verbally to dismiss as "mushy.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“The inability to live in the present lies in the fear of leaving the sheltered position of anticipation or memory, and so of admitting that this is the only life that one is ever likely (heavenly intervention aside) to live.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“The longing for destiny is nowhere stronger than in our romantic life.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“We wanted to test each other's capacity for survival: only if we had tried in vain to destroy one another would we know we were safe.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“As Proust once said, classically beautiful women should be left to men without imagination.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Perhaps because the origins of a certain kind of love lie in an impulse to escape ourselves and out weaknesses by an alliance with the beautiful and noble. But if the loved ones love us back, we are forced to return to ourselves, and are hence reminded of the things that had driven us into love in the first place. Perhaps it was not love we wanted after all, perhaps it was simply someone in whom to believe, but how can we continue to believe the the beloved now that they believe in us?” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“In the end, I've found that it doesn't really matter who you marry. If you like them at the beginning, you probably won't like them at the end. And if you start off hating them, there's always the chance you'll end up thinking they're all right.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“What is so frightening is the extent to which we may idealize others when we have such trouble tolerating ourselves” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Everyone returns us to a different sense of ourselves, for we become a little of who they think we are. Our selves could be compared to an amoeba, whose outer walls are elastic, and therefore adapt to the environment. It is not that the amoeba has no dimensions, simply that it has no self-defined shape. It is my absurdist side that an absurdist person will draw out of me, and my seriousness that a serious person will evoke. If someone thinks I am shy, I will probably end up shy, if someone thinks me funny, I am likely to keep cracking jokes.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“We had often read the same books at night in the same bed, and later realized that they had touched us in different places: that they had been different books for each of us. Might the same divergence not occur over a single love-line? I felt like a dandelion releasing hundreds of spores into the air - and not knowing if any of them would get through.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“Yet we can perhaps only ever fall in love without knowing quite who we have fallen in love with. The initial convulsion is necessarily founded on ignorance.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“In Plato's Symposium, Aristophanes accounts for this feeling of familiarity by claiming that the loved one was our long-lost 'other half to whose body our own had originally been joined. In the beginning, all human beings were hermaphrodites with double backs and flanks, four hands and four legs and two faces turned in opposite directions on the same head. These hermaphrodites were so powerful and their pride so overweening that Zeus was forced to cut them in two, into a male and female half – and from that day, every man and woman has yearned nostalgically but confusedly to rejoin the part from which he or she was severed.” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

“By forty, everyone has the face they deserve,’ wrote George Orwell,” ― Alain de Botton, quote from Essays in Love

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9 Great Books About Love and Relationships

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As Shakespeare once wrote, “The course of true love never did run smooth.” But perhaps we should be grateful for this, because how else would we have such wonderful books about the many paths that love can take? Here are nine titles worth reading…

The Course of Love by Alain de Botton This novel was recommended many, many times before I actually sat down and read it. I had been told it was a “super realistic” portrayal of a relationship, and that sounded depressing. Why would I want to read a dose of reality when I can get a dose of reality just by existing? How wrong I was. (In fact, I’ve read it multiple times since.) The story of one couple’s long-term relationship is indeed realistic, but captures the kind of hopes, fears, insecurities and longing that each of us thinks is ours alone. A gorgeous novel.

Heartburn by Nora Ephron Have you ever been wronged? Cookbook writer Rachel Samstat knows the feeling — she’s seven months pregnant and just discovered that her husband (a man who is “capable of having sex with a venetian blind”) is having an affair. Thus begins this novel, based on real events from Ephron’s life, which manages to turn a terrible situation comedic, as only she could. Bonus: The chapters have recipes interspersed throughout.

What I Know for Sure by Oprah Winfrey Sometimes, you need a hug. Sometimes, you need tough love. Sometimes, it helps to hear that someone else has been through whatever you’re going through. This book has all of that, plus some. A collection of Oprah’s beloved “What I Know For Sure” columns from O Magazine, these short essays on tumultuous relationships, self-esteem, friendship, career, connection, resilience, and finding your way span the full range of human emotions and feel like a deep talk with a good friend. I’ve turned to them over and over again through different stages, and expect I will do so for years to come.

Eleanor & Park by Rainbow Rowell This young adult book about two teens who meet on a bus is the perfect account of young love — that idyllic, all-encompassing feeling unlike any other. For any parents of teens, it’s a great reminder of that time of life. For everyone else, don’t let the YA label deter you. Though it’s about teens, the feelings of love are so universal, this book is really for everyone.

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen Hailed as one of the most beloved love stories of all time, Austen’s classic reminds us that romance has been complicated and annoying for centuries. Set in rural England, the book follows the five (very different) Bennet sisters, whom matriarch Mrs. Bennet cannot wait to marry off. Though I am incapable of reading without imaging nearly every character being played by Colin Firth, her novels never cease to amaze me — such sharp wit, brilliant observations, timeless emotions. This one really holds up.

The Art of Communicating by Thich Nhat Hanh If communication is the foundation of all human relationships, then this book is perfect for all humans, no matter where you are or what chapter you are currently in. The celebrated monk and author discusses how to listen mindfully and express your most authentic self. I especially loved his concept of conversation as a source of nourishment — with goodness or toxicity you absorb, like food. With specific examples for individuals, couples and families, this book can lead us all to more loving communication.

How to Be a Person in the World by Heather Havrilesky Struggling with a date who won’t commit? Not sure why you keep making the wrong choices? Heather Havrilesky’s got you covered. A collection of advice from the beloved Ask Polly columnist, my friends and I are so acquainted with a handful of these essays that we refer to them in conversation — “He sounds like the guy who wouldn’t move his art off the chair so his date could sit down.” This book is the best kind of advice: wise, honest, told from the perspective of someone who knows it’s all going to be okay.

All About Love by bell hooks No list about books on love would be complete without this book by scholar, cultural critic and feminist bell hooks. A treatise devoted to answering the question “What is love?”, it includes lines like “the word ‘love’ is most often defined as a noun, yet… we would all love better if we used it as a verb,” after which my life was never the same again. While the text skews frustratingly hetero-normative, this provocative and profound book is a must-read.

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Dr. Sue Johnson Full disclosure: I haven’t read this book, but three of my friends were “prescribed” it by their various therapists, and all said it greatly helped them. The book’s approach is based on attachment theory, and promises to help couples break free of ‘demon dialogue’ to communicate more effectively. The reviews (and there are a lot of them!) are glowing. Have you read it?

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Tied to the Carolinas. A love story about finding love online later in life.The man was widowed and the woman was divorced. Hope is a wonderful thing.💕 Christine

Can’t forget The Five Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. The way you love may not be the way others receive love…

CoJ! Just wanted to bring your attention to the new website Bookshop, bookshop.org, which is an online web store created by the American Bookseller Association in which you can link to books, and they have an affiliate program! That I think has better rates than Amazon, and also profits independent bookstores! The best of both worlds. NYTimes is using it. :) Would love to see it featured on CoJ in the future! Love, your friendly feminist bookseller!

thank you so much!

I’m a therapist and I “prescribe” Hold Me Tight allllllll the time. It’s easy to read and makes sense (lightbulb moments throughout)… it really gets at what intimacy is. Not just sexual, but more of the eye contact, vulnerable, heart communicating kind of intimacy that we all NEED in our marriages. Added bonus, the audio book is good as well (unless you are a highlighter, note scribbler like me)!

Meghan, same here! I have had so many couples I work with in therapy listen to the audiobook together and say “This is us and this is bringing us closer!” It is such a tender book talking about the fears, and longings underneath our exchanges.

Meghan, I just looke for it on Amazon but they list two different ones with the same title by Dr. Sue Johnson, which one is it?! Hold me tight: Your guide to the most successful approach to building loving relationships or Hold me tight: Seven Conversations for a lifetime of love.

I’d love to read it, thanks!

Martina, I think it’s the seven conversations one! I’d go with whatever has the most recent publication date. I think it’s essentially the same material but may have been repackaged later. Good luck!

Just flipped back to this post to find a title and went to place a hold on “Hold Me Tight” at my library…there are 28 holds in the queue! Amazing — I am guessing this must be Cup of Jo’s influence since the book came out in 2008. So crazy and cool!

I recommend How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It by Patricia Love. No difficult conversations, which often leave people feeling worse, just simple things each person can do to make the other partner feel loved and secure.

The Tattooist of Auschwitz is based on a true story and is the most wonderful and beautiful, yet painful love story I have ever read. I cried for 20 minutes after I finished it because the feelings of sadness AND happiness were so overwhelming.

Please, recommend non-fiction books you love! :)

I’m so glad bell hooks’ All About Love is included in this list! I have given countless copies to friends and meditation students. The part where she talks about how feminist, incredible men are honestly just far and few between was comforting to me when I felt like I wasn’t meeting anyone I wanted to partner with… and I think that understanding and knowing that I did not need to settle helped me not get too impatient and be ready to meet and fall in love with the man I did partner with (now, we’re happily married with a kiddo).

And did you find a “feminist, incredible man” or is it a work in progress? I’d love to know how to reconcile my own expectations or if I even have to to connect.

Thank you for this list! I have finished The Art of communicating and it’s really a great one! Looking for the next book to lose myself in. lol I love Jane Austen too!

I think Normal People by Sally Rooney is an amazing book about relationships. It captures the almost-saids and not-quite-understoods that make up the painful reality that really, truly knowing anyone or expecting them to know you, is impossible. For me this ideas was freeing and relieved so much relationship pain.

Belatedly, I agree, I’d absolutely add Normal People to a books-about-love list! I only read it recently and was blown away (like everyone else). I think if I’d read it when I was younger and single, I’d have felt even more personally implicated. Also, I generally never watch adaptations of books I loved, but this one was so wonderful. Since it is exactly like the book.

One of my favorite novels of all time, which I read every five years or so just to be reminded of what a perfect novel can feel like, is Plainsong by Kent Haruf. It explores many themes of love–the one that most compels me is the love we can find when we look outside of our parental family for parental love.

It also captures love between brothers in such a tender and beautiful way.

I cannot recommend it enough.

For relationship books, when my husband and I were working w/ our non-denominational minister before our wedding, he had us read an older book called Getting the Love You Want. This is a profound and illuminating book and I highly recommend it.

Yes! Plainsong is just soaringly beautiful in an even and simple fashion. Splendid, beautiful book.

I read Little Women for the first time over the winter holiday. Such a simple, yet beautiful book about love of all types. I have one brother, and it made me yearn for a sister. That love seems unlike any other.

The book I always reach for this time of year is “The Song of Achilles” by Madeline Miller. Gorgeous prose and a unique spin on a well-known tale.

Along with Pride and Prejudice, I cannot recommend highly enough Persuasion by Jane Austen. While P&P deals with falling in first/young love, Persuasion is about love lost and found, at a time a little later in life.

yes yes, i love persuasion so much, too!

I PREFER Persuasion! I think it’s her best novel, and shows a real understanding of the staying power of love. So glad someone else said it :)

I second all these comments! My daughter is Anne, and it’s because of “Persuasion”! That novel gave me hope when I was single in my late 20s/early 30s.

yes! sorry but Lizzie is a gold-digger (sorry not sorry lol) I think I became an English major in college just so I could read and discuss more Austen! Persuasion is definitely her greatest love story, I also love sense and sensibility for the love between sisters. My secret favorite is Mansfield park though, even though it’s a weird one, I love Fanny Price and her constancy!

Thank. You. CoJ! I needed these recommendations, on this topic, right now. Serendipitous or universal knowing….. Thank you. :)

Pride and Prejudice is such a classic! It’s one of my favorites. I’m a big Jane Austen fan! I haven’t read Eleanor & Park, but it’s next on my list!

Another PHENOMENAL book about love is Dolly Alderton’s Everything I Know About Love. It’s such a treatise on being in your twenties, love, friendship, everything. It’s brilliant and everyone should read it (even if you’re out of your twenties!)

The Course of Love is incredible.

I subscribe to de Botton’s newsletter but hadn’t read it yet – I just got it after reading this post and it’s already very enjoyable. It’s deep without being over-bearing or heavy-handed.

Plus, as an American English lit major, it’s always a joy for me to read English written by a British writer. I’d love any rec’s on other good writing by British writers.

Fore sure, I would suggest “The Art of Loving” by Erich Fromm. It completely changes the way you think about love, and I found it enlightening.

“Most people see the problem of love primarily as that of being loved, rather than that of loving, of one’s capacity to love. Hence the problem to them is how to be loved, how to be lovable”

I think this is why “The Five Languages of Love” is so popular. It gives specific actions of exactly how, why and what to do in real life to be as loving as you can. It’s great for beginners and even those who’ve gotten very psychologically/intellectually involved because it teaches simple empathy which is very effective.

I wonder if “The Course of Love” has been re-titled “On Love” in the UK… this book is so wonderful I completely agree with your assessment. I’ve only read it once because I’m scared I won’t love it as much the second time! I also just read Pride & Prejudice for the first time and it knocked my socks off and I’m minorly frustrated with myself for not having read it sooner. Love having a book rec list, thank you :-)

Hi Deb! de Botton wrote two books about 20 years apart. “On Love” was the first, and it’s also worthy read, but “The Course of Love” is a true gem and worth getting your hands on.

Thanks for this much needed list! I am going to start from de Botton’s book.

There is one thing I’d like to point out, but I’m afraid you’ll get me wrong or censor my comment and I don’t know how to phrase this.

I find it excessive and needless that a straight author (Caroline, who I adore) writes: “While the text skews frustratingly hetero-normative” Frustratingly for whom? Most of the human population is heterosexual… So was (I assume) the author of the book. Why is that a problem? Maybe the kind readers of Cup of Jo will help me understand, because I see it as much, much overdilligent (and thus insincere) correctness.

Question: why do you assume that Caroline is straight? Moreover, can she, or anyone else, be frustrated by a one-dimensional / one-sided perspective and yearn for more complex and inclusive representation, in order to more deeply understand the full human condition?

@Maria It struck me as well. And I am also a hetero woman. Putting down the mainstream in an effort to be inclusive doesn’t help.

My thought is she was trying to acknowledge that it was written from a hetero-normative perspective so alternatives wouldn’t be triggered and that is likely a challenge when every alternative to the mainstream wants public mention so as to feel seen. Of course we should make an effort to phrase inclusively. Phraseology (is that a word? lol) along the lines of: “while this is from a hetero-normative perspective, take what you can and apply it to suit your own perspective”, is what comes to me off the top of my head but there are probably a million ways to convey that idea for the easily triggered.

For example, I’m vegan for over a decade yet still read certain meat-centric cookbooks and blogs for inspiration because I can easily convert ingredients as necessary. The key is to take inspiration from whatever sources are available and riff off of it to suit your own life. Alternative people must master flexibility in order to live more deeply. You can not just go around being triggered by lack of accommodation by those who have no idea about your lifestyle. An obvious solution is for alternatives of every dimension to put our own books/media out there and in that way be “seen”.

I’d love to write a vegan cookbook for example. But there are already tons out there so I think the job has been done!

I haven’t read the book (and am heterosexual), but I’ve run across writing/communication that was not just *targeted* at a specific population, but assumed that no other population exists. It’s one thing if a statement (or book) just doesn’t include me, but I’m not fine with a statement like “Just putting it out there, because we all know it’s the truth, no matter what feminist stuff we keep saying, we women just want someone with a good job to take care of the money and let us stay at home and cook.” (bell hooks would, presumably, not say this! But I could imagine a statement about what “women” want, sexually, which would be accurate enough for heterosexual women but really alienating for anyone not in that bucket.)

So, I guess, there are grades of “normative”: 1. not mentioning anything other than the normative option (like using “he” for all examples of the generic doctor/technician/whatever). 2. saying things about universality… that aren’t universal (which is probably where this book landed afoul, I’m guessing?) 3. actively asserting that the minority group simply doesn’t exist and are just lying about who they are or just playing at it (like when people say things that amount to “well, all the *real* engineers are male; I mean, it’s cute that the girls try to do this stuff, but it’s not like they make contributions to the field”)

So! Maybe the review note was being slightly oversensitive to a lack of inclusion of non-heterosexual options/alternatives… or maybe the book was more actively “all”-ish in places, in a frustrating way.

As someone who is not hetero, I appreciate when people/writers leave space for me in their words. I find it thoughtful and kind that they take the time to acknowledge that non-hetero people exist and have their own valid experiences of love, relationships etc.

I also really appreciate how Maria framed her comment here – asking a genuine question in an effort to understand something more fully.

Thank you Caroline and Cup of Jo for facilitating these kinds of conversations.

Thank you, fellow readers, for not getting annoyed with me and genuinely explaining all the possible approaches to this! :)

I have to put a shout out for one of the books that deeply shifted my relationship with myself – which I believe to be an increasingly wonderful love story too. :)

Sara Eckel wrote one of the most read ever Modern Love columns that then became a book called “It’s Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You’re Single”. The title does not even begin to capture how deep and compassionate her wisdom is for cultivating a more tender loving and free relationship with yourself. One of the wonderful thing she does is go through all the criticisms women receive for not being in a relationship *and* for looking for a relationship. Ahh the binds we are put in!

I laughed out loud, shed healing tears, and ended up buying Pema Chodron meditations that she mentions throughout the book. After years of reading other self-love books, this one really shifted something in me. I feel a deeper well of love and kindness than I’ve ever known.

And as Sara says – that isn’t a prerequisite for romantic life, just truly a wonderful voice to have, single or partnered.

Yes! I just finished reading Sara’s book, and it was so reassuring and kind. I’m planning on buying copies as Valentines gifts for some amazing single friends this year!

Tenley, this makes me so happy! Yes–reassuring and kind–that is totally how reading Sara felt. I love thinking of it as a gift to other dear women in your life, so lovely.

YAY!!! So glad to see Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson on this list… It truly is the closest thing to therapy! It gets below the content of conflict and disrupted connection to how our attachment gets threatened and puts our nervous systems into high alert.. .So validating and soothing and useful.

Also Heather Havrilesky FOREVER. I always read her when I feel alone in the world and instantly don’t feel isolated at all. She is the absolute most real funny gritty human voice we all need.

My parents run a “Hold me tight” based workshop in Massachusetts. Beyond the weirdness of having therapist parents, it is a really interesting way to look at all types of relationships, not only romantic relationships, I did it with a friend! It has really helped me in the long run be able to reflect on my own emotions and needs, and most importantly, be able to express them better.

Which one are you? By the lovely Grace Farris .

Anton and Toby have been recently struggling with something.

14 covers that capture pandemic life.

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7 Adult Romance Books Like Ugly Love

Romance books lists.

Books like ugly love

In the book ”Ugly Love” we see Miles and Tate are immediately attracted to each other. They are physically very attracted to each other, but they don’t want a relationship. So they start having sexual relationships only.

But at the time, the game turns around 360 degrees, and there is unshakable love we find. Colleen Hoover is an intelligent and realistic writer. She always put many twists and unbelievable things in her story. If you want to read books like Ugly Love, stay with me.

7 Books Like Ugly Love

The book Ugly Love is not fantasy but real in life. In this busy world, we keep busy ourselves in many works. So there is less time for love or relationship. Many people start their relationship by living or dating, and then they feel genuine love for each other.

This book takes this simple story as character development and establishes many actual aspects. After reading this book, you need to read like this book because you feel the vibe and romance. So I will review 7 books similar to Ugly Love that’ll fill up your feelings. Let’s begin!

1. Addicted To You

Addicted to You is a new adult contemporary romance, and it follows Lily and Lo, who are two best friends, both battling different addictions. Lily is addicted to sex, and Lo is an alcoholic. They’ve been using a fake relationship with each other to hide that from their friends and family. Their relationship is a bit of a destructive one, and things start to unravel as they battle their various addictions.

Lily and Lo as characters, you still do pull for them. Their relationship is very destructive and very toxic. In the beginning, they both have issues they have to work through, so it does not forgive this toxic behavior. The side characters, though, are the amazing ones. For example, a couple of Lily sisters pop in to get their books and own stories.

There are some issues as far as heavy-handedness with the story. The fact that they both are addicts and have addictions is pretty much beat over your head the entire book as we get it, but it’s mentioned repeatedly how much Lily is addicted to sex and what she’s doing. Lo repeatedly drinks, to the point where you’re like we know as readers that they’re addicts. There’s also a lot of codependency within the relationship. Can you find similarities with the characters in the book Ugly love? Yes, you will see many similarities among them.

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Author: Krista Ritchie Average Customer Review: (4.3 out of 5, on Amazon) Category: Billionaire Romance, New Adult & College Romance Available: Paperback | Hardcover | Kindle | MP3 CD

2. The Deal

Garrett sees that Hannah made an on her test. She is in the music department, and she’s super busy preparing for a big winter performance. Garrett is flabbergasted because nobody rejects him. So we see the story from Hannah’s and Garrett’s perspectives. Also, Hannah is over here crushing on the guy named Justin. He is one of the stars of the football team at Brown University.

If she is obsessed with him, like doesn’t personally know him, but she like googly eyes. Hannah had a very horrific thing happen to her whenever she was in high school, preventing her from having good relationships with boys. Justin is one of the first people she’s seen since that happened to her. That’s made her heart flutter. So again, Garrett is over here trying to get her to tutor him, and then she rejects it.

Garrett becomes a total-like simp for Hannah. But we learn that both Garrett and Hannah had traumatic things happen to them, and they can bond over that. Their childhood was not a great time for different reasons, and they can see who each other is. There’s always that point of tension, and several things happened that I didn’t see coming, and it was so good when it ended. If you want to read like Ugly Love, you must try it.

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3. A Thousand Boy Kisses

The story follows a girl called Poppy. She is cute, super positive, and everybody loves her. Rune is this young, naive boy from Norway. They both fall in love very early in the book. Then with 15, where the love is grown up with them. One has to move back to Norway because his dad got a new job there. So they decided to do long distance, and ruin moves away. The whole thing is that Poppy has a jar that she got from her deceased grandma, where her grandma told her to collect a thousand boy kisses before she dies.

Rune has moved away, so they decide to phone every evening. Poppy doesn’t recall one day, and she doesn’t text him back. She blocks him and deletes him out of her life. So Rune becomes a dark, twisted, and brooding character. His character development was interesting because he goes from this very young boy to this aggressive one. Also, it was so interesting to read because it’s written out of the dual point of view.

Rune moves back to the city where Poppy lives, and everything is different, and he tries to find out why she contacted him. Then he finds the answer, and it’s something he does not want to know and least expected. This book was a fantastic love story because you could grow with the first love. After finishing the book, you can relate many similar things and moments with Ugly Love.

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Author: Tillie Cole Average Customer Review: (4.7 out of 5, on Amazon) Category: Suspense Romance (Goodreads Choice) Available: Paperback | Audiobook | Kindle | MP3 CD

4. November 9

November 9 is about a young woman. She is 18 years old at the start of the book, and she has been in a fire two years before this book starts. So she has scarring pretty much all over a third of her body. Also, she has big issues with her self-esteem. Before this accident, she was an actress and did not fall off when she got all scarred because nobody wanted to hire her. She meets a guy before she’s leaving for New York City, and she lives in Los Angeles. We’re talking opposite ends of America. They make up this pact.

They’re going to see each other on November 9th every year until she’s 23 because her mother told her when she’s 23 and older, she’s able to fall in love. But before then, she wouldn’t know who she was. So she shouldn’t fall in love with anyone because her identity would get wrapped up for the other person, and she never would find out who she is. Every November 9th, they will see each other and cannot talk to each other throughout the year.

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Author: Colleen Hoover Average Customer Review: (4.7 out of 5, on Amazon) Category: New Adult & College Romance Available: Audiobook | Paperback | Kindle | Audio CD

5. Maybe Someday

This book has a huge impact on emotion. It’s about a girl named Sidney, and she discovers that her boyfriend is cheating on her, and her life spirals out of control. She moves into an apartment with a guy named Ridge, and they hit it off. There are so many curveballs thrown at you from beginning to end.

We have two main characters, Sidney and Rage, and it makes alternate points of view, which I love, especially in romance books. Like Ugly Love, this is a new adult romance. There’s not much graphic or sexual content, but it does deal with people in their twenties. The emotionally mature book makes you feel so many emotions. It’s only appropriate for people who can handle those emotions. It is very deep and painful. Colleen Hoover created such an original and unique story.

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Author: Colleen Hoover Average Customer Review: (4.7 out of 5, on Amazon) Category: Contemporary Literature & Fiction Available: Audiobook | Paperback | Kindle

6. Archer’s Voice

The story follows Bree Prescott as a young woman who has witnessed her father’s death. Her mother passed away when she was young, and her father was murdered six months before the start of the knot. So she wasn’t happy and wasn’t dealing very well with life. So she stays on the quiet side of the lake. So she spends her days going to the lake with her dog and spending time there.

She met a man with long hair and a long scraggly beard one day. They make eye contact without any conversation. Later, Bree knows that the man is Archer Hale. Archer is also mute, and he’s not been able to speak since he was in a car accident when he was six years old, where his parents and uncle died in this accident. So our story takes off from there.

As Bree goes back and forth to the lake, she passes Archer’s property. One day, her dog runs onto Archer’s property, and she starts to form a bit of a relationship, a friendship with Archer. She keeps being forced to be around him, and he starts to interact with her a little bit. Also, she finds out that he can sign her dad was deaf to sign. So they begin to bond over that and get to know one another.

This is all about two broken people coming together and healing together, and these are the romance books I enjoy. The characters of Archer and Bree are intense, vast, nothing kiddie pool here. You learn a lot about these characters. This book takes place over about a year’s worth of time through the majority of the novel, and then you get a glimpse into the future of how things pan out for them.

The investigation into her father’s murder plays into this story. Archer’s family history plays into the story and his history in the town and all those things. So this book is as good as Ugly Love. Some parts completely broke my heart.

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Punk 57 by Penelope Douglas follows two characters named Misha and Ryan. Misha is a boy, and Ryan is a girl, and they have been pen pals since fifth grade. They don’t know who the other person is. They have been best friends ever since fifth grade, towing each other their secrets, confiding in each other, and being there for each other.

One day, Misha never replies to Ryan’s letters. It has been three months, and she doesn’t know if he’s been arrested or died. She doesn’t know what’s happening, and her world is crumbling down without him. Misha would always give her life advice and be there for her. She doesn’t know who she is without him, and nothing’s working. Nothing’s going as planned. Then we have Misha, who has been through a challenging situation and back in these three months because something devastating happened, that ruined his whole life.

One day Misha sees Ryan and him from afar, and he sees that this girl to whom he has written letters ever since he was in fifth grade is not the same girl he sees in front of himself. So, he feels betrayed and feels lied to. But this person that he sees then is nothing close to his best friend. The author is a pro when writing teenage angst like this was who? So read the book and find the suspense as Ugly Love.

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Author: Penelope Douglas Average Customer Review: (4.5 out of 5, on Amazon) Category: New Adult & College Romance (Goodreads Choice) Available: Audiobook | Paperback | Kindle | Audio CD

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Essays in Love  is a novel about two young people, who meet on an airplane between London and Paris and rapidly fall in love. The structure of the story isn’t unusual, but what lends the book its interest is the extraordinary depth with which the emotions involved in the relationship are analysed. Love comes under the philosophical microscope. An entire chapter is devoted to the nuances and subtexts of an initial date. Another chapter mulls over the question of how and when to say ‘I love you’. There’s an essay on how uncomfortable it can be to disagree with a lover’s taste in shoes and a lengthy discussion about the role of guilt in love.


The book is an intriguing blend of novel and non-fiction. As in a novel, there are characters and realistic settings, but these are blended in with a host of more abstract ideas. The book has attracted a particular following among those who have recently fallen in love ­- or come out of a relationship.

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The Book I Like Most – Short Essay

I like to read books often in my leisure that brings the passion in me while beginning to read the book. I have read several kinds of the book like, science fiction, fantasy, adventurous, real stories, thrillers, inspirational and even romantic stories. There are many books which I liked a lot after reading. The book I like the most is Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare. The editor of the book was Barbara A. Mowat and Paul Werstine.

This is a romantic classic novel by Shakespeare. The story of Romeo and Juliet with the contrast of love and violence begins with the essence of love at first sight between the two and then ends with the union of the two lovers in death seems almost inevitable. This play of Shakespeare has an extraordinary setting of the quintessential story of the young lovers. Rather than feeling to overcome the giant obstacles to be together, they felt that they would rather die than be kept apart. This classic play sprinkles a flavor of the violent love story with a tragic ending. Shakespeare gave an exquisite language to his young lovers with affection.

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12 Books to Read After You’ve Finished Daisy Jones and the Six

You’ve devoured the original book, binged the show, and have a rock-and-roll-size hole in your existence—here’s what to read next.

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Did you fall down the rabbit hole that is all things Daisy Jones and the Six ? The popular book penned by Taylor Jenkins Reid achieved such high praise that it was adapted for an Amazon Prime mini-series starring Riley Keough, Josh Whitehouse , Camila Morrone, and more. What’s all the fuss about? The story, delightfully told in a faux-documentary format—both on page and onscreen—maps the historic rise and exquisite fall of a fictional rock and roll super group in the 1970s. The band, having concealed the reason for their implosion, finally comes clean in a thrumming plot line not dissimilar from a Fleetwood Mac guitar solo.

But you know this. You’ve read the book, binged the latest episodes, and spent your life’s savings on anything fringed or paisley. Here’s what to read next to learn the true stories behind the era’s biggest L.A. bands and musicians, iconic essays evocative of the time, and other non-fictional tropes if you feel like slipping into something a little more exploratory.

“ The White Album: Essays ” by Joan Didion

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In this essay collection, Didion captures the essence of Los Angeles in the 1960s and 1970s. From hanging in the recording studio with Jim Morrison to processing the fear and confusion invoked by the Manson family attacks, Didion narrates the soul of that landscape—ripe for creativity, revolution, and rebellion.

“ Making Rumors: The Inside Story of the Classic Fleetwood Mac Album ” by Ken Caillat and Steven Stiefel

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Serving as low-key inspiration for Daisy Jones and the Six , Fleetwood Mac’s real history has enough material for multiple books and series. Here, Caillat—who served as co-producer on the album—recounts the stories behind the songs: the partying, the heartbreak, and the drama that manifested in one of rock and roll’s most legendary albums.

“ I’m With the Band: Confessions of a Groupie ” by Pamela Des Barres

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Des Barres walked so Penny Lane—and yes, Daisy Jones—could run. The real woman behind the OG “groupie” classification debriefs on exhilarating thrills with stars like Mick Jagger, Waylon Jennings, and the Sunset Strip during the 1960s and 1970s. But Des Barres is not a woman defined by her romantic past. Most importantly, perhaps, readers learn of the music: the shows, the songwriting, and the people who inspired and adored it.

“ Laurel Canyon: The Inside Story of Rock-and-Roll’s Legendary Neighborhood ” by Michael Walker

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From Joni Mitchell to The Byrds, Laurel Canyon welcomed top musicians in the ’60s and ’70s, frequently resulting in a blend of sounds—from folk to country or experimental. Here, Walker gives a tour of one of music’s most legendary neighborhoods, and explains how this canyon became the stomping ground for so many artists.

“ Riders on the Storm: My Life With Jim Morrison and the Doors ” by John Densmore

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Just what did it take to belong to one of the most raucous bands ever to exist? Densmore spills about his time working as the drummer in The Doors. Readers will enjoy previously unreported details of the band’s creation, hitting the road with the group, and of course, all the juicy Jim Morrison antics.

“ Morning Glory On the Vine: Early Songs and Writing ” by Joni Mitchell

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Originally crafted as a holiday gift for loved ones, this book is comprised of illustrations and handwritten lyrics and poems from Mitchell’s early career. Rare is it to enter the creative mind of such an influential musician; this book serves as a lens into her wide-reaching talent and skill.

“ Eve’s Hollywood ” by Eve Babitz

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The Joan Jett to Didion’s Carole King, Babitz gets messy in the all the best ways. In this essay collection, Babitz ricochets from the Chateau Marmont to taco joints and everywhere in between in one of the most unflinching examinations of the L.A. scene during the late ’60s and early ’70s. No seatbelts required.

“ Time Between: My Life as a Byrd, Burrito Brother, and Beyond ” by Chris Hillman

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Helping to put Laurel Canyon on the map, The Byrds, co-founded by Hillman, ushered in the popular country-infused rock sound of the late 1960s and 1970s. Here, the musician recounts his time in the The Byrds, The Flying Burrito Brothers, and a fabulous life spent in canyon.

“ Girls Like Us: Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon—and the Journey of a Generation ” by Sheila Weller

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Believe it or not, 1970s Los Angeles was not entirely a boy’s club, thanks to the likes of Joni Mitchell and Carole King—and their East Coast counterpart, Carly Simon. Here, these trailblazers get the treatment they’ve long deserved in this rich history, without the cringey pandering.

“ Tom Petty: A Rock And Roll Life ” by Nick Thomas

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An extensive review of the hitmaker’s life, Thomas takes readers from a hot-and-humid upbringing in Florida to the hallowed canyons of Los Angeles. Warning: You won’t be able to turn off anything by Petty for weeks after reading this one—but that’s not a bad thing.

“ Not Fade Away: A Backstage Pass to 20 Years of Rock and Roll ” by Ben Fong-Torres

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Memorialized in “Almost Famous” Fong-Torres’ influence on rock journalism is, in fact, “crazy.” The former Rolling Stone journalist is partially responsible for installing the publication at the mantle of progressive and impactful reporting that was immersive. His work often catapulted readers to the front rows and backstage of concerts they might only dream of attending. Here, Fong-Torres collects some of his most sensational celebrity interviews while exposing the story behind the story.

“ Shakey: Neil Young’s Biography ” by Jimmy McDonough

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Is anyone more synonymous with Laurel Canyon than Neil Young? Probably not. From his childhood in Canada to the co-founding of Buffalo Springfield and later, Crosby, Stills, and Nash, McDonough provides a comprehensive review on the man behind so many timeless songs.

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Books like Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover

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Often, we fall into a story that isn’t love at first sight but one that we hope, in the end, will lead us there. Colleen Hoover’s Ugly Love gives us just that; it provides the perfect amount of drama, passion and romance. And lucky for us, there are authors like Hoover who understand our need for a bit of anticipation on the journey to love. As you continue to read and re-read Ugly Love , dive into these stories that’ll tease you every step of the way.

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After Perfect by Maan Gabriel

Gabriella Stevens is recently divorced at 36—a shock to her since she’s spent the last sixteen years being a devoted wife to her husband Simon. Now determined to make a new life as a single woman in New York City, she must go back to school, find a real job, and face a life on her own for the first time. Now Gabby’s life might be looking up after she falls in love with her creative writing professor, Colt. As a man who is seven years younger than she is, and one with a past, Colt might be incapable of love. Gabby is in for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as she navigates Colt’s past and her new future. If you like the mystery of Miles’ past in Hoover’s Ugly Love , then this will be an enjoyable read.

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Fake It Till You Bake It by Jamie Wesley

The unexpected but expected surprise of romance in Ugly Love is what you’ll find here. When Jada Townsend-Matthews turned down a marriage proposal on a reality dating show, she became one of the most disliked women in the world. The only place she can return is home, in San Diego, and with a job at a cupcake bakery. Her boss and owner at Sugar Blitz, Donovan Dell, also happens to be a professional football player and a bit uptight. It only takes one reporter to mistake the two as a couple for Jada to realize that she could use this for her image. Donovan agrees on the basis of it helping his struggling store—but they’ll both realize that faking it can and will lead to the real thing.

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The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood

Olive Smith, a third-year Ph.D. candidate, doesn’t believe in relationships or happily ever after. Her best friend Anh, on the other hand, does. Olive grew up as an orphan, which turned her into a hardworking, smart biologist who spends most of her time in the lab conducting her research. Since Olive believes in science more than anything, she’ll need firsthand proof.  And when Anh starts to like Olive’s ex a bit too much, Olive kisses the first guy she meets, Adam Carlsen, in the halls to prove her lack of care. Once she realizes her random guy isn’t so random, Adam and Olive enter into an arrangement of ruse. Their arrangement works all too well until Olive realizes her feelings go deeper than what they both agreed.

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The Spanish Love Deception by Elena Armas

Catalina Martín gets stuck in a lie. Her sister’s wedding is on the horizon, and she needs a date fast to play her faux boyfriend. Now everyone, especially her ex, is expecting an American boyfriend when she arrives in Spain. With four weeks left to leave New York and fool her family, Catalina’s options are limited. Her colleague, Aaron Blackford, just might do the trick if she actually liked his handsome, condescending face. When he offers to be her date, she’d love nothing more than to refuse; only Aaron looks like her best chance, and there might be more to him than Catalina guessed.

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Archer’s Voice by Mia Sheridan

Bree Prescott is desperately seeking peace. When she arrives in Pelion, Maine, the Sleepy Lakeside Town is the place she’s been looking for all along. The first person she encounters, Archer Hale, is an isolated man who no one really sees and keeps secrets of his own. When Archer was seven years old, a traumatic accident left his voice box damaged. Now as a man he lives a life of solitude. He enters town rarely and the day he does, he meets Bree. After their initial meeting, a determined Bree becomes friends with Archer until the two grow fond of each other, and Bree starts to fall in love. But can Archer truly open with the secrets he’s kept hidden in his past? This story of transformation, fate and a man with secrets resembles Hoover’s Ugly Love .

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Things We Never Got Over By Lucy Score  

The familiar sense of agreements made and broken in Ugly Love will rear a similar head with Score’s main characters. There are two things in life bad-boy Knox enjoys the most: his solitude and his basset hound Waylon. The things he likes the least are drama, especially in the form of a runaway bride named Naomi. When Naomi left her wedding without a husband, she told herself it was also to come to the rescue of her long-lost twin sister, Tina. In the rough town of Knockemout, Virginia, Naomi’s twin, it turns out, doesn’t need rescuing at all—in fact, she hasn’t changed her evil ways. This time when Naomi arrives, Tina steals her car and cash and leaves her with an 11 year old. As the chain of events that leave Naomi jobless, homeless and without cash unfold in front of Knox, he feels compelled to help. What starts out as his agreement to aid her turns into much more than he bargained.

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The Fine Print by Lauren Asher

The chemistry in Ugly Love matches the heat between Zahra and Rowans. Zahra Gulian is an employee of Dreamland, a faux Disneyland. Zahra is one who lights up the room when she walks in and wants nothing more than to be a Creator at the park. Her boss, Rowan Kane, became the Director of Dreamland after his grandfather left him the company. When Zahra gets promoted after an incident she thought would get her fired, her position allows her to work closely with Rowan. At first, the two bicker, but soon they become friends and ultimately, they fall in love.

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I Think I Love You by Auriane Desombre

Emma is a romantic—a hardcore one at that. She goes crazy for the love scenes on Netflix or the meet-cute moment in a film. She’s also about to enter into a film festival competition so her brain can only focus on gay rom coms and the ideas she’ll create with her friends. Winning this competition could mean a college scholarship and an internship in the film industry, a major dream of Emma’s. All her ideas though are short-lived once Sophia returns from living with her mother in Paris. Sophia is practical. If she could, she’d boycott all relationships, teen boys and Emma’s ideas for the film. Sophia thinks an artsy, introspective film would win over the judges rather than something cheesy. Deciding to make two films, Emma and Sophia break off to see who can make the best film. But as tension between them arise, they’ll see they have more in common than they realized. The sparks that fly in Ugly Love  soar in this tale that’ll make any rom-com fans gush.

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I’m So (Not) Over You by Kosoko Jackson

Kian Andrews and Hudson Rivers broke up months ago, and Kian hasn’t heard from his ex-boyfriend at all. When the aspiring journalist gets a text to meet at a cafe, Kian shows up, hoping Hudson will offer an apology or a confession that brings them back together. What he gets instead is a request from Hudson to fake their previous relationship for Hudson’s parent’s sake. What was meant to be a ruse for one night turns into Kian being a plus one to a wedding. Attending this wedding filled with big names could mean a lot for Kian’s career, but agreeing to all of Hudson’s rules for their fabricated relationship starts to feel risky, and more and more lines are blurred between the two.

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The Unhoneymooners by Christina Lauren

Ami’s and Olive’s luck differs heavily. Olive’s luck isn’t always the best. Not in love, her career or anything really. Ami’s luck is superb. From the romantic way she meets her fiancé to how well she manages her life, Ami gets it all. She even gets to pay off her wedding by winning an internet contest. Giving her sister what she desires, Olive agrees to spend the day going through the wedding planning, which includes spending time with Ethan, the best man and her enemy. Olive’s luck soon turns around when the wedding party ends up sick, leaving her and Ethan with a free vacation to Hawaii. But as quickly as her luck comes it leaves, because she now has to play the ruse of a newlywed couple to save her pride in front of her future boss.

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The Course of Love

We all know the headiness and excitement of the early days of love. But what comes after? In Edinburgh a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married, they have children—but no long-term relationship is as simple as "happily ever after". The Course of Love is a novel that explores what happens after the birth of love, what it takes to maintain love, and what happens to our original ideals under the pressures of an average existence.

Amazing, much needed retooling of the expectations and realities of Love

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How to Think More About Sex

The school of life.

So asserts Alain de Botton in this rigorous and supremely honest book designed to help us navigate the intimate and exciting - yet often confusing and difficult - experience that is sex. Few of us tend to feel we're entirely normal when it comes to sex, and what we’re supposed to be feeling rarely matches up with the reality. This audiobook argues that 21st-century sex is ultimately fated to be a balancing act between love and desire, and adventure and commitment.

Realistic Relationship Expectations

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On Confidence

We spend vast amounts of time acquiring confidence in narrow technical fields: quadratic equations or bioengineering; economics or pole vaulting. But we overlook the primordial need to acquire a more free-ranging variety of confidence - one that can serve us across a range of tasks: speaking to strangers at parties, asking someone to marry us, suggesting a fellow passenger turn down their music, changing the world. This is a guidebook to confidence, why we lack it and how we can acquire more of it in our lives.

Poignant and timeless

By: The School of Life , and others

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How Proust Can Change Your Life

For anyone who ever wondered what Marcel Proust had in mind when he wrote the one-and-a-quarter-million words of In Search of Lost Time (while bedridden no less), Alain de Botton has the answer. For, in this stylish, erudite and frequently hilarious book, de Botton dips deeply into Proust’s life and work - his fiction, letter, and conversations – and distils from them that rare self-help manual: one that is actually helpful.

A nice petite primer on Proust

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The Consolations of Philosophy

Alain de Botton has performed a stunning feat: He has transformed arcane philosophy into something accessible and entertaining, useful and kind. Drawing on the work of six of the world's most brilliant thinkers, de Botton has arranged a panoply of wisdom to guide us through our most common problems.

Cheering, empathic, helpful

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Religion for Atheists

The boring debate between fundamentalist believers and non-believers is finally moved on by Alain de Botton's inspiring new book, which boldly argues that the supernatural claims of religion are of course entirely false - and yet that religions still have important things to teach the secular world.

Disappointing, Erroneous, Implausible

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The news is everywhere. We can’t stop constantly checking it on our computer screens, but what is this doing to our minds? We are never really taught how to make sense of the torrent of news we face every day, writes Alain de Botton (author of the best-selling The Architecture of Happiness ), but this has a huge impact on our sense of what matters and of how we should lead our lives.

Quit the news

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We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle.

Good book - just not a good one for Audible

By: Amir Levine , and others

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What's Our Problem?

By: Tim Urban

From the creator of the wildly popular blog Wait but Why, a fun and fascinating deep dive into what the hell is going on in our strange, unprecedented modern times.

A Powerful Framework for How to Engage With Each Other

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By: The School of Life

Emotional intelligence affects every aspect of the way we live, from romantic to professional relationships, from our inner resilience to our social success. It is arguably the single most important skill for surviving the twenty-first century. But what does it really mean? One decade ago, Alain de Botton founded The School of Life, an institute dedicated to understanding and improving our emotional intelligence. Now he presents the gathered wisdom of those ten years in a wide-ranging and innovative compendium of emotional intelligence that forms an introduction to The School of Life.

The school of life needs to be in schools.

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How to Overcome Your Childhood

When trying to deal with our current troubles and anxieties, it can be deeply irritating to be asked to consider our childhoods. They happened so long ago; we can probably barely remember, let alone relate to, the little person we once were. But one of the most powerful explanations for why we may, as adults, be struggling, is that we were denied the opportunity to fully be ourselves in our earliest years. This book is a guide to better understanding our younger selves in order to shape who we wish to be in the future.

Great book!

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In Ancient Greece, when the philosopher Socrates was asked to sum up what all philosophical commandments could be reduced to, he replied: "Know yourself". Self-knowledge matters so much because it is only on the basis of an accurate sense of who we are that we can make reliable decisions - particularly around love and work. This book takes us on a journey into our deepest, most elusive selves and arms us with a set of tools to understand our characters properly.

terrible voice

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This is a guide to anxiety: why we feel it, how we experience it when it strikes, and what we can do when we come under its influence. Across a series of essays that look at the subject from a number of angles, the tone is helpful, compassionate, and in the best sense, practical. 

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The School of Life: On Failure

This is a hopeful, consoling, gentle book about failure. Our societies talk a lot about success, but the reality is that no one gets through life without failing–in small and usually also in large ways. Sometimes our failures are very obvious, at other times, we feel we have to conceal them out of shame. This book encourages us to accept the role that failure plays for all of us and to feel compassion for ourselves for the messes we can’t help but make as we go through our lives.

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When the Song of the Angels Is Stilled

By: A. S. Croyle

It is Spring, 1874, and 20-year-old Sherlock Holmes is a lonely, mopey, friendless Oxford student. He attends classes and spends countless solitary hours conducting chemical experiments, reading, and playing his violin. Suddenly, his life changes because of a serendipitous moment on campus. While walking on the grounds of the university and practicing fencing moves with his foil, he encounters Victor Trevor and his sweetheart, Poppy Stamford, younger sister of the man who will one day introduce Sherlock to Dr. John Watson.

Decent book, but not a great mystery

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What They Forgot to Teach You at School

We probably went to school for what felt like a very long time. We probably took care with our homework. Along the way we surely learned intriguing things about equations, the erosion of glaciers, the history of the Middle Ages, and the tenses of foreign languages. But why, despite all the lessons we sat through, were we never taught the really important things that dominate and trouble our lives: who to start a relationship with, how to trust people, how to understand one’s psyche, how to move on from sorrow or betrayal, and how to cope with anxiety and shame?

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The Unbearable Lightness of Being

A young woman is in love with a successful surgeon, a man torn between his love for her and his incorrigible womanizing. His mistress, a free-spirited artist, lives her life as a series of betrayals—while her other lover, earnest, faithful, and good, stands to lose everything because of his noble qualities. In a world where lives are shaped by irrevocable choices and fortuitous events, and everything occurs but once, existence seems to lose its substance, its weight. Hence we feel “the unbearable lightness of being."

Love, Politics, and Strange Bedfellows

By: Milan Kundera , and others

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2 Minutes to Midnight

By: Steve D. Lang

Twenty-six short stories that will amaze you. Among others: Curiosity Rover discovers a locked door in the side of Mount Sharp, on Mars, and three scientists are sent on a mission to discover what lies within the ancient structure. Will they locate the mysterious libraries of a civilization lost, and survive to tell about their discoveries in "The Mars Tetrahedron"? Plus, you'll hear "The Day Satan Quit" and much much more.

Publisher's Summary

Essays in Love is a stunningly original love story. Taking in Aristotle, Wittgenstein, history, religion and Groucho Marx, Alain de Botton charts the progress of a love affair from the first kiss to argument and reconciliation, from intimacy and tenderness to the onset of anxiety and heartbreak.

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Every relationship you've ever analyzed

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

I wouldn't recommend this book to all my friends but I know that some of them would enjoy it as much as I did. It's for romantics that think too much sometimes. It's for realists that love to fall in love nevertheless.

What was one of the most memorable moments of Essays in Love?

There are many memorable moments...but perhaps what stands out now after a couple weeks is the way intimacy in the couple is revealed and lost. The fight scenes are funny in a "oh yeah, I've been there" kinda way.

Have you listened to any of James Wilby’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

It was my first James Wilby book and I enjoyed his reading very much.

Who was the most memorable character of Essays in Love and why?

I guess it was the main male character because he's so introspective to the point of absurdity but also insightful.

5 people found this helpful

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Brilliantly plucks and weaves love's nuances

What did you love best about Essays in Love?

The story is engaging. There are really good points made, great references, and de Botton analyzes the nuances of falling in and out of love with the perspective and depth of someone who's lived a thousand lives. The narrator's voice is very attractive.

What does James Wilby bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

Great voice. Very warm and theatrical (not in an exaggerated way) at the same time.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Yes. It was so hard to even go to sleep. I had my Audible on sleep timer several times but didn't want to miss anything to grogginess. So I would relisten the same parts the next day. This book is so wise.

Any additional comments?

Definitely listen to this.

3 people found this helpful

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One day binge

Simply could not put this book down. There are so few stories, love stories fewer still, that capture real life so well. The book itself is a beautiful mix of philosophical topics with narrative that makes for such an enlightening and enjoyable listening experience. Very well performed, I'd highly recommend it to anyone looking for a realistic love story.

1 person found this helpful

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what a creep

the author is an egotistical jerk who spends the entire book bemoaning how he has fallen madly and passionately in love with a woman who has the nerve to exist as herself rather than his idealized intellectual equal.

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Not really a novel

it was more of a reflection on human behaviour written partly in a story format. It was still a very moving book

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If there was ever to be a road map on the topic of love and relationships, this would be it. This, second only to The Course of Love, another classic.

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I have enjoyed many of de Botton's books but this one is tedious, disappointing. Not worth it.

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Enjoyable read

I enjoyed this book thoroughly. I liked how it captured the man’s point of view throughout the relationship journey. I would recommend this book to anyone interested in understanding love in all its stages.

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Embracing ambiguity of love

Via an interesting and quite ordinary love story de Botton invites us to reflect on one of the most important aspect of life: romantic love.

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Good story, poor narration

The narrator is too dramatic which unfortunately ruins some moments. I enjoyed the story though.

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Don't 'read' when your heart is breaking

A beautifully written piece, combining philosophy, psychology, observation and a captivating story absolutely seamlessly, and with such humour and sadness it is unputdownable. The narrator is a skilled storyteller, whose sensitivity to the subject permeates his voice. This book would be perfect for anyone who is single, starting a relationship, in a loving relationship, and in a relationship in trouble who needs some loving guidance and reflection. But I beg you, do not read/listen to this when you're in the middle of heartbreak. I started listening after watching many School of Life videos on YouTube, finding them fascinating and comforting, and thought this book might help me heal from my break-up from a beloved of 6 years, the wounds of which are only a month old. I got up to a certain point in the story, and suddenly all the pain and grief are just as fresh and overpowering as they were 4 weeks ago when we finally realised, both of us, for the first time, that it was really over. As a consequence I've had a crappy weekend, and feel like I've taken 15 steps back in recovering from this heartbreak. If I'd waited a few months, when the pain isn't so raw, it would have been immensely healing, but I listened too soon. I'll probably come back to hear the last few chapters in a few months, but for now I just wanted to add a "trigger warning" to this otherwise wonderful book. If your heart is breaking, wait a while. Sending love to all who read this that know the pain I'm feeling right now.

28 people found this helpful

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Not for the lonely ...

Alain de Botton meticulously dissects that bizarre and complex creature: the Love Affair. He takes every emotion felt, and every action taken, and - through the magnifying glass of philosophy - analyses the whole process of falling in love. From the moment of the lovers’ first contact, through the heat of their passion, the rage of their arguments and the ridiculousness of their sulks, we hear what the philosophers - ancient and modern - have made of love. As with everything of Alain de Botton’s that I’ve read, 'Essays in Love' is rich with ideas and beautifully written: he manages to put heart into what could otherwise be rather abstract intellectual concepts. The narrator is somewhat neurotic but in a necessary and likeable way, and I was with him through all of his trials. A wonderful book - brilliantly narrated, too - that is going to stay with me for a long time.

13 people found this helpful

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It wasn't what I expected, but it was a brilliant balance between being a novel and a psychological analysis of feelings of love.

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intellectual and boring - lacking emotional depth

Got too bored of both Mr DB's books on love. Great idea for a book, but I wonder where nice man might benefit from a therapeutic exercise to calm down the intellect and allow for the emotional, and other aspects of wisdom to thrive. I prescribe a course of therapy - no shame in that

4 people found this helpful

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Not my cup of grey

This wasn’t for me. Some of it was useful and some parts are funny but generally could not connect or relate with the posh narration. I didn’t find it consistently universal or ironically clear about the specifics of a very upper middle class perspective/experience of romance. In fairness I can see others might enjoy tho

2 people found this helpful

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A heartbreakingly exploration of romantic love

This novel is a heartbreakingly painful exploration of romantic love which follows the story of a relationship from its tender beginnings to its bitter end and subsequent evaluation. The relationship is that of a nameless, male narrator, who is an over-thinker, and Chloe, a highly-strung, high-maintenance, young woman. Although the affair is very petty bourgeois (they meet on a plane from Paris, have dates at art galleries and pretentious restaurants and argue about literature), it represents some common stages of many relationships, the expectations, emotions, miscommunication and various other pitfalls. What's wonderful about the book is the forensic and brutally honest analysis of each stage of a relationship in chronological order. Also, the philosophical analysis of romantic love and the thoughts and feelings of the protagonists. Obviously, much of the analysis is de Botton's own, he is a great thinker, and when you explore a relationship through the lens of sharp, critical thinking there is an inevitability about the conclusion. There are many toe-curlingly, embarrassing moments, self-doubt and exchanges which may make you want to joint a holy order committed to celibacy. Even though the reader can see the end coming a long way off, it's worth sticking around to witness the conclusion and poke through the debris of what is left. There is beauty and pain here which are essential ingredients of novels and there is the absence of any preaching or cliché. The book maybe a difficult read for many but hopefully it can help people to better understand the complex forces at work in relationships. If two people in love, who both desperately want a relationship to work, but can't and, in fact, end up hurting each other and destroying the relationship; what hope is there for international diplomacy? This is the best book I have read on this topic by some distance. James Wilby is faultless in the reading of this model.

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A beautiful analysis of one love story

A beautiful analysis of one love story. Many of its musings can apply generally. Audio performance was spot on.

Journey through a romance

It’s a very intriguing experience, I think, even a little bit cruel for Chloe. Every feelings they share, love they made, comes into my mind. The gaze, the camel, their personal dictionary, I did reflect a lot of my romance in the past in their stories, anyway a very good delivery!

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Indulgent & self-consciously intellectual

In a word: Frustrating. AdB has written some interesting works. This isn't one of them. The simple story of how a man loved and lost has some merit. But the excessive philosophising is indulgent and tiresome.

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A bit disappointing

The narrator was good but when he did the female character's voice it was a bit cringy and made her seem quite one dimensional. The story was disappointing as it seemed to cover quite trite generalities of a love story and none of the characters were likeable to me.

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Alain De Botton- fav comedian?

Honestly so so funny because of how true, vulnerable and relatable it is. A true joy to listen to

So good! Love the story and narrative.

Loved it! The story, the teachings and the narrative are excellent!! This is the 3rd book from Alain de Botton that I read/ listen and I always love. Clear messages and easy way to learn something so profound like relationships.

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A very good observation of any relationship

I enjoyed listening to this book as it was my first book from Alain de Botton. I quite liked his view and accurate observation on different stages of a relationship. going to listen to the next one from him :)

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This is a book about an almost universal anxiety that is rarely mentioned: an anxiety about what others think of us, about whether we're judged a success or a failure, a winner or a loser. This is a book about status anxiety. Best-selling author Alain de Botton asks, with lucidity and charm, where our worries about status come from and what, if anything, we can do to surmount them.

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One of the great, but often unmentioned, causes of both happiness and misery is the quality of our environment: the kinds of chairs, walls, buildings, and streets that surround us. And yet, a concern for architecture is too often described as frivolous, even self-indulgent. Alain de Botton starts from the idea that where we are heavily influences who we can be, and argues that it is architecture's task to stand as an eloquent reminder of our full potential.

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Aside from love, few actvities seem to promise us as much happiness as going traveling: taking off for somewhere else, somewhere far from home, a place with more interesting weather, customs, and landscapes. But although we are inundated with advice on where to travel, few people seem to talk about why we should go and how we can become more fulfilled by doing so.

Dull, suggestions for better alternatives

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We spend most of our waking lives at work - in occupations often chosen by our unthinking younger selves. And yet we rarely ask ourselves how we got there or what our occupations mean to us. Characteristically lucid, clever, and inventive, de Botton's "song for occupations" is a celebration and exploration of an aspect of life that is all too often ignored and a book that shines a revealing light on the essential meaning of work in our lives.

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When 10-year-old cousins Maddy and Brianna are arrested for a terrible crime, Maddy’s mother, Juliet, cannot believe it. How could her bright, joyful daughter be capable of such a thing? As the small village community recoils in horror, the pressure of the tragedy blows Juliet and her sister’s lives apart. And things get even worse when their daughters retreat into a self-imposed silence. Can anyone reach Maddy and discover the truth before her fate is sealed? Juliet is crushed. Nothing will ever be the same for her darling girl.

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The Art of War

By: Sun Tzu

The 13 chapters of The Art of War , each devoted to one aspect of warfare, were compiled by the high-ranking Chinese military general, strategist, and philosopher Sun-Tzu. In spite of its battlefield specificity, The Art of War has found new life in the modern age, with leaders in fields as wide and far-reaching as world politics, human psychology, and corporate strategy finding valuable insight in its timeworn words.

The actual book The Art of War, not a commentary

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Austen wrote, 'I am going to take a heroine whom no-one but myself will much like' and thus introduces the handsome, clever, rich - and flawed, Emma Woodhouse. Emma is perfectly content with her life and sees no need for either love or marriage; nothing however delights her more than matchmaking her fellow residents of Highbury. But when she ignores the warnings of her good friend Mr. Knightley and attempts to arrange a suitable match for her protegee Harriet Smith, her carefully laid plans soon unravel and have consequences that she never expected.

Background sonds RUINED this

By: Jane Austen , and others

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In Buck Lake, Colorado, the resident dog catcher, Collins, is on the verge of retirement. But something strange lurks in the woods, about to ruin his plans.... After 30 years, Collins is ready to be done with small-town animal control. His replacement, Blair, is a Gen Z vet student who hates mansplaining; they don’t get along. But on the eve of his retirement, Collins gets a call that changes everything. There’s been a report of a vicious wild dog on the loose.

I want more!

By: Ben Rock , and others

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The Murderer's Son

By: Joy Ellis

Crimebusting duo DI Jackman and DS Evans are back, solving another crime that will make your skin crawl. Twenty years ago: a farmer and his wife are cut to pieces by a ruthless serial killer. Now: a woman is viciously stabbed to death in the upmarket kitchen of her beautiful house on the edge of the marshes. Then a man called Daniel Kinder walks into Saltern police station and confesses to the murder. But DI Rowan Jackman and DS Marie Evans of the Fenland Constabulary soon discover that there is a lot more to Daniel than meets the eye.

Audible ruined this one for me.

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By: K. L . Slater

I know my daughter better than I know myself, and if there’s one thing I know for sure at this moment it's that Maisie is not okay. My ex-husband, Shaun, and I are still friends. We would do anything for our beautiful little girl, Maisie. But now Shaun has moved in with Joanne, and suddenly Maisie has a brand-new family. And there’s something not quite right about it.... I know Joanne isn’t everything she says she is. Yet no-one will listen. I need to discover what she’s hiding. Because if I don’t, my daughter will be in terrible danger. 

K L Slater.. losing her touch unfortunately...

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He Who Fights with Monsters: A LitRPG Adventure

It’s not easy making the career jump from office-supplies-store middle manager to heroic interdimensional adventurer. At least, Jason tries to be heroic, but it's hard to be good when all your powers are evil. He’ll face off against cannibals, cultists, wizards, monsters...and that’s just on the first day. He’s going to need courage, he’s going to need wit, and he’s going to need some magic powers of his own. But first, he’s going to need pants.

By: Shirtaloon , and others

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Black Heart

By: Anna-Lou Weatherley

When Nigel Baxter, a middle-aged married banker with an unremarkable past, is found dead in the bath of a plush hotel suite, his wrists slit, it looks as if he's taken his own life. At first. But when Detective Inspector Daniel Riley is assigned to the case, he soon realises all isn't as it first appears to be. When a postmortem shows Baxter was poisoned, Riley suspects foul play. And then there's the odd addition of a teddy bear left at the crime scene....

Difficult to Love

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Safe with Me

Thirteen years ago someone did something very bad to Anna. Now it's her turn to get even. Anna lives a solitary existence, taking solace in order and routine. Her only friend is the lonely old lady next door. She doesn't like to let people to get too close - she knows how much damage they can do. Then one ordinary day, Anna witnesses a devastating road accident and recognises the driver as Carla, the woman who ruined her life all those years ago.

Different... good different!

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The Beatrix Potter Collection

By: Beatrix Potter

The Beatrix Potter Collection is perfect for introducing a new generation to the magic of her adored classic stories. Featuring her much-loved children’s tales and showcasing some of the most recognisable characters in English literature, it will enthral and entertain young listeners whilst providing warm nostalgia for those already acquainted.

I love Peter Rabbit

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Fingerprints of the Gods

By: Graham Hancock

Fingerprints of the Gods is the revolutionary rewrite of history that has persuaded millions of listeners throughout the world to change their preconceptions about the history behind modern society. An intellectual detective story, this unique history audiobook directs probing questions at orthodox history, presenting disturbing new evidence that historians have tried - but failed - to explain.

Classic in Historical Mysteries

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See How They Run

By: Rachel Howzell Hall

Still mourning the death of her own fiancée, Lauren Hudson must put on a brave face for her family as they gather in Zion National Park for her brother’s wedding. He’s co-founded a “glamping” (glamorous camping) start-up with Sadie, the soon-to-be bride whom the rest of the Hudsons have yet to meet, and they’re hosting their small destination wedding for their nearest and dearest right on their own campgrounds.


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Coming Home

By: Kennedy Ryan

Touré Wallace and Niomi Spencer were close friends at Finley College, the prestigious HBCU they attended. The attraction that simmered between them every semester was a question they never got to ask or answer before soaring ambitions launched them to opposite corners of the world. Both chased their dreams of grit and glamor as high-profile journalists. They got it all...except a shot at being more than friends. Years later, Touré is an award-winning investigative journalist and Niomi is America's most popular morning-show host, but they both feel like something’s missing.

Black Love for the win!

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You think you can trust the ones you love most. But what if one secret could make you question everything? Every day, a woman like Louise passes you in the street: elegant, confident, determined. But underneath, she’s struggling. She doesn’t know her sister, Alice, has been scared of leaving the house since their mother died. She doesn’t know when Alice babysits her little boy, Archie, he sometimes sees things he shouldn’t. She doesn’t know Archie has a secret. A secret that could send cracks through the heart of Louise’s carefully constructed life....


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Finding Grace

The day after her ninth birthday, Lucie and Blake Sullivan agree, for the very first time, to let their daughter, Grace, make the four-minute walk back home alone from a friend’s house down the street. They joke with friends about hiding behind bushes to ensure she is safe. But the joke turns sour when Grace does not appear. Despite the best efforts of the police and local community, Grace seems to have vanished into thin air. With hope fading fast, Lucie knows she can rely on her husband to support her. That is until the day she makes a shocking discovery....

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We Own Tonight

By: Corinne Michaels

I'm not a one-night stand kind of woman. I'm especially not the woman who has a few drinks at a concert and ends up in bed with my childhood celebrity crush, Eli Walsh. However, that's exactly where I find myself. What's a girl to do after a drunken mistake? Run. I grab my clothes and get away from the powerful, irresistible, and best-sex-of-my-life superstar as fast as I can.

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hello! i’ve been writing poetry since 2019 and i think i’ve finally gathered enough poems i love to put together a poetry book (which has always been a dream of mine). my question is what is the best way to go about publishing a poetry book? self publishing vs finding a publisher, amazon vs bookstores, etcetc. just looking for some more insight after hearing multiple different opinions through my research.

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There are some great poetry contests for first books (APR, Milkweed, Yale Younger, Persea). This is if you choose to go a more traditional route. Just depends what exactly you’re looking for out of your career.

oooh okay, thank you! i’m frankly already pursuing a more “traditional” career path but i guess i really just want to be able to share my work with the world, no matter if it reaps any benefits or not.

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